A client is very self-critical. A social worker should not say which of the following?

• A. It seems to me that your self-criticism is based on things you have done in the past.
• B. Your self-criticism may reflect negative beliefs.
• C. It sounds like you set high standards for yourself.
• D. Let’s explore where this self-criticism comes from.

Answer: (A)

Empathic, nonleading language is being tested here. When a client is highly self-critical, the social worker should reflect feelings and invite exploration rather than assert a definitive source for the self-criticism. Saying that the self-criticism is based on things the client has done in the past makes a definite interpretive claim about the client's history and causes, and it shifts the client’s understanding away from their own perspective. It can feel paternalistic or accusatory and may shut down further discussion about current triggers or beliefs. The other statements align with collaborative exploration: they normalize or identify cognitive patterns (negative beliefs), acknowledge self-imposed standards (high standards), and invite a joint investigation into origins (where this self-criticism comes from). Therefore, the first option is not appropriate to say, as it offers a fixed explanation rather than inviting the client to articulate and examine their own experience.